Safe words- aka traffic light system and why it’s my favourite

Safe words- aka traffic light system and why it’s my favourite

Safe words are just that, words that we use to be able to call (or stop) a scene when we need to, to make a scene safe for us to be vulnerable in and perhaps push our boundaries in a way that feels controlled. 

Safe words are used to relay information regarding how someone is fairing in a kink scene, or for a top to check in with a submissive or bottom whilst in a kink scene. Safe words are words we use to indicate when we need play to stop, or keep going. These can take a variety of form and are often used because when playing with kink, words like stop, might not mean stop. 

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A room mate role play- spanking and wooden paddle session

A room mate role play- spanking and wooden paddle session

I tell you to undress and return to see me. You look shocked but you acquiesce. When you return I am sitting down and beckon you to lie over my knee. This is when the spanking begins. I do not give you a warm up, you do not deserve one, I want you to feel this for the upcoming days as a reminder of your selfish behaviour.

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A naughty school boy role play- featuring spanking, caning and humiliation

A naughty school boy role play- featuring spanking, caning and humiliation

When I felt you had throughly ruminated on your behaviour I decided to give you the last and most harsh part of the punishment, the cane. I brandished 5 different canes, from crooked handled to straight canes from thin to thick. I worked you over at first lightly tapping your arse and then moving onto firmer and firmer strokes.

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The catharsis of pain and grieving- a beatdown story

The catharsis of pain and grieving- a beatdown story

This session, he wanted his first beat down experience. Perhaps when you think of beat downs you think of slapping and punching, there was indeed, plenty of both of these in our time together. There was, however, a plethora of intimacy. 

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The joy of playing with a well trained Submissive

The joy of playing with a well trained Submissive

It is a true delight when a submissive does mean “Do whatever makes you happy Mistress”. When they have really thought about their boundaries and comes to the table (I literally do my pre session negotiations around a table) with knowledge of their bodies limits and their hard and soft limits and can say “I want to do whatever makes you happy Mistress.” It is literal joy to my ears.

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Multi Mistress, Multi Fun, Multi Slave Parties- DominaParties and why I am a part of them

Multi Mistress, Multi Fun, Multi Slave Parties- DominaParties and why I am a part of them

When I began working independently I missed this comraderie, therefore when Mistress Penelope asked if I wished to join Domina Parties, a Multi Mistress, Multi Slave Play Parties I jumped at the idea. The initial play party I participated within was in with Mistress Penelope and Mistress Salem and I loved it, I felt like I was back at the house of domination but with more slaves and in a more supportive environment. I witnessed a playfulness amongst Mistress Penelope and Mistress Salem that I found infectious, we tried things in combinations I had not tried before and I was hooked.

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Hard limits

Hard limits

Hard limits are things (be they actions, words, items or spaces) which an individual does not wish to use in kinky play. A hard limit could be literally anything, some of the most common ones I have come across when negotiating play scenes have been: tickling; spitting; blood; humiliation; pain; golden showers; caning; claustrophobia… 

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Female Supremacy a Role Play Romance.

Female Supremacy a Role Play Romance.

Role plays, nothing gets me going like them. They are the activity I most enjoy within BDSM. Their breath, scope, imagination, sensitivity. I revel in the vulnerability that they can bring.

I feel honoured when someone comes to me with a role play which allows them to explore a part of themselves which they do not often shed light on.

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The importance of asking for what you want

The importance of asking for what you want

But the main thing I wish to address in this blog, is the concept that you can go to see a professional in the adult industry and that they know what you want or that they can give you what you want without you explaining what that is or might look like

I want to ask you this: how many times have you asked for what you really wanted, in regards to receiving or giving pleasure? Of the times you received pleasure, did you receive what you deeply craved? Were you able to change that, correct something, change tact and how did that feel? What I came to understand, spending those 5 days with other co-workers, was that there are very feel times that we are encouraged to stop and make the time to feel into our body, for as long as we need to, and to really let our body tell us deeply what it wanted in that moment. 

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A detailed fisting testimonial from S

A detailed fisting testimonial from S

I really enjoy fisting sessions. It is a great privilege and honour for someone to allow that level of intimacy to their body. It is something I truly revel in.

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Panty Sniffing Role Play full of humiliation and degradation

Panty Sniffing Role Play full of humiliation and degradation

Mortified and angered I tell him to apologise properly or I shall inform his employers. At this stage he is begging me to not call his boss as he fears he will loose his job. He asks what he can do to make it up to me? Speechless my mind whirs into action and I tell him that there will need to be a reckoning between us and that he will have to utterly humiliate himself if he wants to save his job.

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First steps in booking a session with me, what to expect.

First steps in booking a session with me, what to expect.

Do you feel intimidated by the concept of booking a session with me? 

Have you wondered what meeting me would be like?

Perhaps if I demystify part of this experience you will feel more confident in coming to me with your deep-seated desires and fantasies.

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Fantasised about a Chastity session? My favourite! Introductory session details

Dreaming of Chastity? Me too (they're my favourite). Details of my an introductory Chastity session

Chastity- the state or practice of refraining from sexual intercourse and genital arousal. This can be an entry for those wishing to experience cuckolding and coaxed/forced bisexuality sessions. This often involves stimulating the person in chastity and not allowing them to achieve orgasm (or at least, not until the very end).

The details below are from a session which I conducted with a client (no personal details have been shared) and we both had a wonderful time. I shall post his review of the session shortly.

The chastised

You admit that you are nervous. You say you have never seen a professional before, it's always been a fantasy but something that you haven't built up the courage to pursue until now. 

You have told me your hard limits, you do not want pain or intense humiliation or blood, but otherwise you are open to explore.

The groundwork is laid, our session commences.

You lie down. You have never been restrained before, now you feel a mixture of apprehension and arousal as your eyes are covered by a blindfold and your mouth is silenced with a gag. Your arse propped up, you lying on your back, exposed. Your cock tied up. When it came to put the cock cage on at the beginning you were already too hard for me to do this, you now realise why Mistress asked you to arrive caged.

Headphones are placed on your ears, now all you can hear is a gangbang, which you can't see and you become harder and harder. Occasionally the blindfold is removed from your eyes and you can watch a plethora of bodies revelling in one another. The blindfold is returned. You experience moments of vibrations on your cock and balls, these increase and decrease, you never know when the touch of a hand, the touch of a vibrator of the touch of a cool implement will enliven you...

The Dominant

Introduction

We speak at some length about your desires, your specific form of erotic fascination. I talk you through some of the things we will explore together. If you have never seen me, and particularly any professionals which deal with power dynamics, I want to ensure that you understand that I am not here to live out my desires to your detriment. I want you to communicate with me, to let me know if you are in discomfort, your toes curling could mean pleasure or pain and I ask you to communicate with me throughout the experience we are creating together. I appreciate your honesty and willingness to connect and be vulnerable with me.

The scene

You do not own a chastity device. In our introduction, you have told me of your experience with cuckolding (as both the Cuck and the Dominant), I find it fascinating that you have not experienced wearing a chastity device before despite this being such a erotic centrepiece for you. Alas you were too aroused to place the cock cage on, we shall have to save this for another session.

We begin by you becoming blindfolded. Loosing your dominant sense can do so much to heighten all other senses. I ensure I check your breathing, touch your chest to feel your breath. I tie your hands down to the table. I gag you and tell you how to indicate with your hands that you need things to change. stop, be different or to communicate with me.

I place headphones on your ears, the soundtrack of a gangbang to titillate whilst you are immobile. I see your breathing become more shallow. I spit on your cock, you thrive and writhe. Occasionally I pull up the blindfold and let you look at the images on the screen. Whatever will happen next...

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Testimonial from a lucky submissive D- Dominant GFE

Testimonial from a lucky submissive D- Dominant GFE

I was keen to see Miss Tallula not just because of her obvious charms but mostly because her online presences promised a bundle of mischief.  Spoiler alert: promise delivered!

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Whisky Adoration, Appreciation & Dream Holiday Drams

Whisky Adoration, Appreciation & Dream Holiday Drams

Everyone has their delectable morsel of joy be that food and drink or otherwise. My taste has been brewing for over 5 years (young in some liquor standards) to embrace the grandiose young age statements of whisky.

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