Introduction to BDSM

Hard limits

Hard limits

Hard limits are things (be they actions, words, items or spaces) which an individual does not wish to use in kinky play. A hard limit could be literally anything, some of the most common ones I have come across when negotiating play scenes have been: tickling; spitting; blood; humiliation; pain; golden showers; caning; claustrophobia… 

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The importance of asking for what you want

The importance of asking for what you want

But the main thing I wish to address in this blog, is the concept that you can go to see a professional in the adult industry and that they know what you want or that they can give you what you want without you explaining what that is or might look like

I want to ask you this: how many times have you asked for what you really wanted, in regards to receiving or giving pleasure? Of the times you received pleasure, did you receive what you deeply craved? Were you able to change that, correct something, change tact and how did that feel? What I came to understand, spending those 5 days with other co-workers, was that there are very feel times that we are encouraged to stop and make the time to feel into our body, for as long as we need to, and to really let our body tell us deeply what it wanted in that moment. 

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First steps in booking a session with me, what to expect.

First steps in booking a session with me, what to expect.

Do you feel intimidated by the concept of booking a session with me? 

Have you wondered what meeting me would be like?

Perhaps if I demystify part of this experience you will feel more confident in coming to me with your deep-seated desires and fantasies.

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