communication protocol

Safe words- aka traffic light system and why it’s my favourite

Safe words- aka traffic light system and why it’s my favourite

Safe words are just that, words that we use to be able to call (or stop) a scene when we need to, to make a scene safe for us to be vulnerable in and perhaps push our boundaries in a way that feels controlled. 

Safe words are used to relay information regarding how someone is fairing in a kink scene, or for a top to check in with a submissive or bottom whilst in a kink scene. Safe words are words we use to indicate when we need play to stop, or keep going. These can take a variety of form and are often used because when playing with kink, words like stop, might not mean stop. 

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The importance of asking for what you want

The importance of asking for what you want

But the main thing I wish to address in this blog, is the concept that you can go to see a professional in the adult industry and that they know what you want or that they can give you what you want without you explaining what that is or might look like

I want to ask you this: how many times have you asked for what you really wanted, in regards to receiving or giving pleasure? Of the times you received pleasure, did you receive what you deeply craved? Were you able to change that, correct something, change tact and how did that feel? What I came to understand, spending those 5 days with other co-workers, was that there are very feel times that we are encouraged to stop and make the time to feel into our body, for as long as we need to, and to really let our body tell us deeply what it wanted in that moment. 

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First steps in booking a session with me, what to expect.

First steps in booking a session with me, what to expect.

Do you feel intimidated by the concept of booking a session with me? 

Have you wondered what meeting me would be like?

Perhaps if I demystify part of this experience you will feel more confident in coming to me with your deep-seated desires and fantasies.

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Good communication gets my attention- introducing my online booking system

Good communication gets my attention- introducing my online booking system

To aid us create the best communication and rapport we can before a session begins I have begun using a online booking scheduler which you can use to book time with me and fill out the corresponding questionnaire. 

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