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Safe words- aka traffic light system and why it’s my favourite

Safe words- aka traffic light system and why it’s my favourite

Safe words are just that, words that we use to be able to call (or stop) a scene when we need to, to make a scene safe for us to be vulnerable in and perhaps push our boundaries in a way that feels controlled. 

Safe words are used to relay information regarding how someone is fairing in a kink scene, or for a top to check in with a submissive or bottom whilst in a kink scene. Safe words are words we use to indicate when we need play to stop, or keep going. These can take a variety of form and are often used because when playing with kink, words like stop, might not mean stop. 

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A naughty school boy role play- featuring spanking, caning and humiliation

A naughty school boy role play- featuring spanking, caning and humiliation

When I felt you had throughly ruminated on your behaviour I decided to give you the last and most harsh part of the punishment, the cane. I brandished 5 different canes, from crooked handled to straight canes from thin to thick. I worked you over at first lightly tapping your arse and then moving onto firmer and firmer strokes.

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The catharsis of pain and grieving- a beatdown story

The catharsis of pain and grieving- a beatdown story

This session, he wanted his first beat down experience. Perhaps when you think of beat downs you think of slapping and punching, there was indeed, plenty of both of these in our time together. There was, however, a plethora of intimacy. 

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The joy of playing with a well trained Submissive

The joy of playing with a well trained Submissive

It is a true delight when a submissive does mean “Do whatever makes you happy Mistress”. When they have really thought about their boundaries and comes to the table (I literally do my pre session negotiations around a table) with knowledge of their bodies limits and their hard and soft limits and can say “I want to do whatever makes you happy Mistress.” It is literal joy to my ears.

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Female Supremacy a Role Play Romance.

Female Supremacy a Role Play Romance.

Role plays, nothing gets me going like them. They are the activity I most enjoy within BDSM. Their breath, scope, imagination, sensitivity. I revel in the vulnerability that they can bring.

I feel honoured when someone comes to me with a role play which allows them to explore a part of themselves which they do not often shed light on.

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A detailed fisting testimonial from S

A detailed fisting testimonial from S

I really enjoy fisting sessions. It is a great privilege and honour for someone to allow that level of intimacy to their body. It is something I truly revel in.

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