Safe words are just that, words that we use to be able to call (or stop) a scene when we need to, to make a scene safe for us to be vulnerable in and perhaps push our boundaries in a way that feels controlled.
Safe words are used to relay information regarding how someone is fairing in a kink scene, or for a top to check in with a submissive or bottom whilst in a kink scene. Safe words are words we use to indicate when we need play to stop, or keep going. These can take a variety of form and are often used because when playing with kink, words like stop, might not mean stop.
It is a true delight when a submissive does mean “Do whatever makes you happy Mistress”. When they have really thought about their boundaries and comes to the table (I literally do my pre session negotiations around a table) with knowledge of their bodies limits and their hard and soft limits and can say “I want to do whatever makes you happy Mistress.” It is literal joy to my ears.
You await my presence, I walk around you, you are naked besides my feet, on your hands in knees, head bent, eyes closed. You are listening to and awaiting every metal heel on floor board step I take.
I inspect you, I begin to control you I move my hands around your body, correcting your posture, ensuring your head is in the position I wish it to be, neutral neck, neutral spine. You move as I command, if you do not, there will not be the rewards which you so desperately crave, in fact quite the opposite.
You are caught sneaking a peak into the Netball teams changing room, you are ushered in only by one of the team members only to be whispered in the ear and pulled onto your knees on the cold hard floor of the changing room. The girl with the thickest thighs in the room starts walking towards you whilst another girl quickly slips her hands over your eyes....
"Miss Tallula Darling is a most sensuous, delectable, intellectual and erotic delight...Miss Tallula sent me into a wild fantasy using her creative narratives, sent me back in time to school, slowly taunting me as she built up my excitement in preparation to be caned. Miss Tallula also pegged me for the first time, an experience which I will remember forever..."