Darwin findom

Responsible rinsing

Responsible rinsing

Responsible rinsing

Cash is king, consent is the whole hierarchy combined.

I want your money, but what I want more is a sustainable relationship where you come back and give me money in a way that doesn’t damage you or our relationship.

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Acts of Service- why they are so important and enthralling

Acts of Service- why they are so important and enthralling

I enjoy acts of service which are deliberate and meaningful, that suit my exact needs and which are done with utmost care.

When someone is able to approach an act of service with humility and with your needs being paramount, a special connection is made, ego is dropped away, and instead moments of discovery are created. When I can fully relax, knowing that the person in the act of service, is able to listen, change and devote their attention to my needs, there is a symbiosis, which allows both the receiver and the giver to breathe deeper, to feel more, to better connect.

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Your money belongs to me- Findom and why I (and you) love it it

Your money belongs to me- Findom and why I (and you) love it it

What are you doing today in service for me today? What are you doing for me every day? What more could you do for me? Your gifting to her is an act of service. What are you offering me that will improve my life and through giving improve yours? Giving feels wonderful, don’t you want to give me your all? Become useful, give to me. Become better, give me more. The gift of giving, should be every day. Give the gift of joy by devoting our pay to me.

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