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Acts of Service- why they are so important and enthralling

Acts of Service- why they are so important and enthralling

I enjoy acts of service which are deliberate and meaningful, that suit my exact needs and which are done with utmost care.

When someone is able to approach an act of service with humility and with your needs being paramount, a special connection is made, ego is dropped away, and instead moments of discovery are created. When I can fully relax, knowing that the person in the act of service, is able to listen, change and devote their attention to my needs, there is a symbiosis, which allows both the receiver and the giver to breathe deeper, to feel more, to better connect.

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Safe words- aka traffic light system and why it’s my favourite

Safe words- aka traffic light system and why it’s my favourite

Safe words are just that, words that we use to be able to call (or stop) a scene when we need to, to make a scene safe for us to be vulnerable in and perhaps push our boundaries in a way that feels controlled. 

Safe words are used to relay information regarding how someone is fairing in a kink scene, or for a top to check in with a submissive or bottom whilst in a kink scene. Safe words are words we use to indicate when we need play to stop, or keep going. These can take a variety of form and are often used because when playing with kink, words like stop, might not mean stop. 

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A naughty school boy role play- featuring spanking, caning and humiliation

A naughty school boy role play- featuring spanking, caning and humiliation

When I felt you had throughly ruminated on your behaviour I decided to give you the last and most harsh part of the punishment, the cane. I brandished 5 different canes, from crooked handled to straight canes from thin to thick. I worked you over at first lightly tapping your arse and then moving onto firmer and firmer strokes.

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The joy of playing with a well trained Submissive

The joy of playing with a well trained Submissive

It is a true delight when a submissive does mean “Do whatever makes you happy Mistress”. When they have really thought about their boundaries and comes to the table (I literally do my pre session negotiations around a table) with knowledge of their bodies limits and their hard and soft limits and can say “I want to do whatever makes you happy Mistress.” It is literal joy to my ears.

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Hard limits

Hard limits

Hard limits are things (be they actions, words, items or spaces) which an individual does not wish to use in kinky play. A hard limit could be literally anything, some of the most common ones I have come across when negotiating play scenes have been: tickling; spitting; blood; humiliation; pain; golden showers; caning; claustrophobia… 

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A detailed fisting testimonial

A detailed fisting testimonial

I really enjoy fisting sessions. It is a great privilege and honour for someone to allow that level of intimacy to their body. It is something I truly revel in.

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Testimonial from P - Kinky Wayward Massage Therapist

Testimonial from P - Kinky Wayward Massage Therapist

When I arrived Miss Tallula was in “role” straight away.  The actuals details of the content of the session I will keep to my memories. Suffice to say that, the touching, the dirty talk, the breath upon my skin, caused at times me to have whole body reactions

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Whisky Adoration, Appreciation & Dream Holiday Drams

Whisky Adoration, Appreciation & Dream Holiday Drams

Everyone has their delectable morsel of joy be that food and drink or otherwise. My taste has been brewing for over 5 years (young in some liquor standards) to embrace the grandiose young age statements of whisky.

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