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Touring deposit increase- why I have initiated this

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Touring deposit increase- why I have initiated this

I went on tour last year and a client, who I had sent many emails to, cancelled a multi hour booking once I was already at the location. This client had paid a deposit and had been linked to my cancellation policy, understood I was travelling interstate but only informed me of the cancellation with less than 24 hours notice, making it very difficult for me to find a replacement booking and ultimately I lost money due to this cancellation.

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Safe words- aka traffic light system and why it’s my favourite

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Safe words- aka traffic light system and why it’s my favourite

Safe words are just that, words that we use to be able to call (or stop) a scene when we need to, to make a scene safe for us to be vulnerable in and perhaps push our boundaries in a way that feels controlled. 

Safe words are used to relay information regarding how someone is fairing in a kink scene, or for a top to check in with a submissive or bottom whilst in a kink scene. Safe words are words we use to indicate when we need play to stop, or keep going. These can take a variety of form and are often used because when playing with kink, words like stop, might not mean stop. 

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